All children are different when it comes to being a part of a family photoshoot. Some love being in-front of the camera and others want to just play. To some extent it depends on their age group. For example, a 9 year old can understand and take direct better than a 2 year old. We want to avoid ‘forced smiling’ so I never actually ask kids to smile for a photo. I like to capture them in a genuine moment of joy. When children just want to play, I’m more than happy to work around that. I like to keep a playful vibe through-out the photography session when younger kids are involved.
My top tips for happy and engaged children at your photography session are:
Be easy-going and never show frustration
Once they pick up on your stress or displeasure, their wall goes up and out comes the stubborn child. Stubborn is tough to get rid of once it comes out. Don’t worry about them “smiling at the camera” or doing something you don’t want them to do. Keeping a light, playful vibe will shine through in the pictures.
Be playful and go with the flow of the children
It really is ok if the kids aren’t into an activity or direction. If they don’t feel like sitting at that moment, and would rather dance, I go with them and redirect later. Going with the flow, but guiding, is the best way for kids. Be playful, it’s a great way to get some awesome action shots and it’s authentic. Tickling, twirling, and spinning are great ways to interact with your kids so that they engage with you.
Offering rewards after the photoshoot
This is an optional idea if your kids respond well to this. I encourage the reward to be a family activity like getting ice cream together after taking pictures.
Babies and toddlers
Firstly, it really helps to book your session at a good time during the day when your child/children are at their best, active, awake and ready to play. Make sure babies are rested and fed beforehand. Feed your toddler before the photoshoot and don’t suggest a time right near their nap/bedtime. Children of this age take little to no direction, but they will enjoy the session if there is a happy, playful vibe. We can also add additional props into the shoot for extra engagement like blowing bubbles or playing music, a toy that you don’t might being in the photos etc. Please let me know if you would like this or any other props to be added into the photography session.